Getting Motivated, Staying Motivated.
Many
people, myself included, struggle with staying motivated.
I
can only speak from my own experience and my interactions with
clients, but here goes.
I
know that we live in an instant gratification society - everything
happens so fast, we expect or demand that our goals happen rapidly,
too. This just isn’t realistic. We set big goals in terms of weight
loss, fitness level, weight lifting achievements, but we fail to
have the patience to follow through with those goals. Many of us
never even write down the big goals.
Sit
down and write down your big goal. It needs to be realistic
and attainable. Now, working backwards from that goal,
set smaller goals. These goals can be simple and daily. Things like
the amount of time you will do cardio, or the number of servings of
vegetables you will eat on a given day.
Mini-goals will help you build a feeling of success - a
pattern of achievement, if you will. Your mind is a tricky place, if
you don’t really believe that you can do something, you will
sabotage the effort somehow.

On days that you
are feeling unmotivated - reread your goals list, then spend a few
minutes visualizing the scenario of your success. What will you look
like? What will it feel like? Where will you be? How will it change
your life? Get fired up, get involved in your life. You only get
one…
There is a wealth
of articles and tips online that will help keep you motivated -
Google motivation and check some out - I find that reading something
inspirational gets me ready to succeed on days that I just want to
go back to bed.
Another great thing
is to find success stories of people with similar goals to yours,
look online or find an inspirational book that speaks to you and
your goals.
Pick a phrase that
means something to you - something that motivates you and use it as
a mantra when you feel your focus blurring. It can be something as
simple as‘I can do this’ to a more direct affirmation ‘I am a health
conscious person who takes care of their body.’ Either way, keep it
positive and make it future oriented as if you are already the
person you want to become.
"I can do This"
There are so many
facets to motivation - it is hard to cover them all. If you are in a
tight spot that is dampening your enthusiasm, find a light in the
situation. Look for the way that the current challenge will make you
a stronger person, what it will teach you, how you are heroic in
overcoming this situation.
This is your
life, choose to live it. Choose to be in the power seat.
Choose to train your mind to help you achieve your goals. Never stop
learning or growing.
"Mind is all that counts. You can be whatever you make up your
mind to be". - Robert Collier
Till next time
Amy Simmer
